Kurus Vs. Gemuk, Cantik Vs. Tak cantik

Assalamualaikum and good day everyone :-)

I've been wanting to bring this issue up for a long time, tapi tak kesampaian. Harini ada juga peluang.haha. Benda ni memang common sangat. Tgk post title pun dah boleh agak kan. But kdg2 yang common tu bukan bermakna tak penting, cuma tak endah je :)

Lain org lain rasa,lain pendapat, lain cara kann. But when it comes to this matter, i believe MOST people will have the same perception and theory on it. Weight and beauty :)

Those 2 things mcm inter-related kan? Well they are. I'm not sure how do guys feel about this but I'm 100% positive this is what we, women feel. :) It is kinda sensitive to us kan bila ckp hal ni. 
Some people are too obsessed to get in a nice shape. The question is, how do you define a nice shape? Is it only thin?

Trust me. I was once like that. I understand how you feel :-) When i was in Form5, i had this passion to lose weight. Mmg semangat berkobar time tu.Terlalu nak sgt jadi kurus.I didn't eat rice for months.Mknn berminyak & berlemak pun tak makan. Everyday tak miss pun nak workout. And ikut my brothers pergi gym. Actually my effort really paid off. After 3 months i started to see changes. Berat turun kpd yang diinginkan!haha then teruskan lagi dgn diet tu. Smpilah dh nk dekat SPM. Dgn busynya semua, one day my dad noticed something wrong with my face. Dia ckp jd cengkung sgt mcm org sakit dh. I didn't get enough nutrition and balanced meal everyday. So i stopped sbb takut it'd affect my studies. I mkn balik makanan mcm normal & ya Allah nikmatnyaaa and happy tak terkata. Barulah rasa hidup.haha The point is tak salah jaga badan cuma jadi salah bila kita berlebih-lebih & terlupa apa yg perlu. Tak perlu la smpi nak ikat perut bagai kann. Tapi tak boleh jugak kita mkn sesuka hati. Take the right proportion okay? :)

It does not matter pun actually org tu kurus atau gemuk. It does not represent anything. Yelah ada org tgk org tu yang berisi then akan cakap msti kuat makan ni. Then yang kurus tak makan ke mcmana? Takkan. It all depends on your metabolism. 

Yup weight limit is one thing, another thing is beauty. Dua benda ni mmg obviously benda yang org paling taksub kan? As you can see in the title, cantik and tak cantik. Kalau barang nak dibeli tu bila nak buat pilihan kita akan pilih yang paling sesuai and yang paling kita suka la kan. Kira yg paling cantik kt mata kita la kan. Yang kita taknak beli tu kita akan ckp la buruk or tak lawa ke. But do you think it should also be that way to humanity? NOPE. 
And kata lawan bagi cantik siapa tau? Hodoh kan? This is what i personally feel, the word 'hodoh' tu should not have existed in the first place. Tiada ciptaan Tuhan yang hodoh la kawan :) Kita xboleh la nk judge org tu by saying org tu cantik and org sorg lagi tu hodoh. Amboi kalau mcm tu semua nak kawan dgn yg si cantik tu jela. yg sorg lg tu?? Elok di mata kita blm tentu elok di mata org lain (cewaahhh..)

Org selalu definisikan org gemuk tu tak cantik, bila yang kurus badan sekeping papan org cakap cantik. 

Dari mana dtgnya theory org kurus cantik? Semua orang cantik di dunia ni. Every person in this world has their own beauty. & you see, beauty does not have weight limit. Yang penting diri kita sendiri perlu tau diri kita ni cantik so that kita yakin (tapi jgnlah riak takabur pulak haha) tapi cantik dalaman tu lagi sempurna. :)

Cukuplah kot merepek smpi sini. Thank you for reading! XOXO :)